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Is This Thing On?

Ohai! I bet you’d thought I forgot I had a blog.

Long story. Mostly involving life and things happening and the like. Here’s a quick synopsis:

I am incandescently happy with Stego. <3
I’m also still accepting applications for other people to also make me incandescently happy. (I love poly!) There’s a strong new candidate: he’s doing well so [...]

A Brave New World

When I moved this blog over to WordPress, I always did so with the interest of this being more of a personal blog about what’s going on with me. (I live under the illusion that you all want to know this.) What I don’t want to happen is for this blog to become kind of a [...]

Do Open Marriages Work, Part II: Open Harder

I suspect there’s not many in the online poly or poly-friendly community yesterday that didn’t read the debacle of an “article” posted by CNN from Oprah.com author Karen Salmansohn. If you didn’t, I’ll include a link in the Further Reading section at the end of my post.

The basic gist? Salmansohn was propositioned to participate in an [...]

The Case For Mainstream

I did not explode from forcing myself to be sociable amongst strangers and mild acquaintances. Just in case you were wondering. I wanted to get that out of the way.

Maybe you weren’t wondering. What with me taking more than a week to post a follow-up blog and all.

(If you have no idea what I’m talking about, [...]

The Problem With Definitions...

You know what I can’t imagine? Going on a first date with someone and having a 40-page contract handed to me. I couldn’t imagine that before I decided to explore polyamory, and that’s not likely to change any time soon.

And by “any time soon” I pretty much mean all of Ever.

In fact, I might just laugh at [...]

A New Normal

Willkommen, my brethren. I’m happy to say I’m back in the blogosphere, still defying all SEO best practices by jacking up the first paragraph of my post with random banter. Like this.

But hey: I’m a Georgia peach. We have to be polite, sugar. Think of it as my own brand of Southern hospitality.

If you followed along [...]